Common Sense Media Review
By Andrea Beach, based on child development research. How do we rate?
age 17+
Lots of graphic, erotic sex in fluffy college romance.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Icebreaker, by Hannah Grace, is a light college romance with a lot of very graphic, detailed descriptions of sex between main characters. Oral sex, manual stimulation, vaginal sex, masturbation, stimulation with a shower head, and many different positions are specifically described. Lots of sexual innuendo and banter. Good examples of consent and safer sex practices. Strong language is almost nonstop and includes "a--hole," "bastard," "bitch," "bulls--t," "clit," "c--k," "cum," "precum," "d--k," "douchebag," "f--k," "hell," "ho," "pr--k," "p---y," "slut," "s--t," "t--ts," and more. Anastasia's eating habits are disordered and her skating partner is emotionally abusive and manipulative. Anastasia has a history of anxiety and control issues and sees a therapist. Violence and scariness is mild, including a fight with punches that mentions bleeding cuts and swollen faces, an unwanted kiss leads to a lot of emotional upset, and a character who nearly dies after falling through ice into a pond. College-age characters drink to excess a lot and often don't remember what happened or how they got to where they woke up. Consequences include hangovers, vomiting, and dealing with poor decisions.
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Sex, Romance & Nudity
a lot
Lots of graphic, detailed, explicit descriptions of adult college students having sex with the intention of causing arousal, from both male and female perspectives of an opposite-sex relationship. Oral sex, manual stimulation, vaginal sex, masturbation, genital and manual penetration, stimulation with a shower head; many different positions specifically described and sex done in places like the back of an SUV full of passengers. Details about body parts, placement, and bodily functions are described with crude words like "clit," "t--ts," "p---y," "c---k," "d--k," "pr--k," "cum," and "precum." Detailed descriptions of the physical sensations of orgasm. Lots of sexual innuendo and banter. Mention of a past unwanted pregnancy. Good examples of consent and using condoms and birth-control pills.
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Language
a lot
Near constant swearing includes: "ass," "a--hole," "bastard," "bitch," "bitched," "bitchiness," "bulls--t," "butt-ass naked," "clit," "c--k," "cum," "precum," "d--k," "d--knotized," "dips--t," "douchebag," "f--k," "f--king," "f--knugget," "hell," "ho," "jackass," "Jesus," "Jesus Christ," "Jeeeeeez," "little s--ts," "motherf--ker," "pr--k," "p---y," "slut," "slutty," "s--t," "s--thouse," "s--tty," "t--ts," and the middle-finger gesture.
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Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
a lot
See AlsoParents' Ultimate Guide to Parental ControlsA Court of Thorns and Roses, Book 1 Book ReviewShatter Me, Book 1 Book ReviewThe Hunger Games, Book 1 Book ReviewCollege students of legal age drink to excess a lot, in glamorous situations like a Vegas casino-themed birthday party, house parties, or a popular Hollywood nightclub. Characters often don't remember what happened or how they got to where they woke up. Consequences include hangovers, vomiting, and dealing with poor decisions. Playing beer pong is mentioned several times but not described, and adult situations come up in a game of Never Have I Ever. A character invents a way to incorporate drinking into playing Twister.
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Violence & Scariness
a little
A fight with punching, shoving, knocking things over, and choking isn't detailed. Cuts on faces mention blood but aren't described. A punch in the face. An unwanted kiss. Punches to friends' arms while teasing. A character is in danger of drowning after falling through thin ice.
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Products & Purchases
a little
Luxury consumer products to establish rich characters. A few food, beverage, and alcohol brands. A playlist in the front features a variety of pop and rap artists.
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Positive Messages
some
Winning is worthless if you hate yourself for what you have to do to win. Recovery isn't linear; trust the process and forgive yourself when you make a mistake. Real love makes each partner better, and makes anything possible.
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Diverse Representations
some
Both main characters are White. Nate's family is extremely wealthy. Anastasia's is middle class, and she's always known she was adopted. Nate's friend group includes his best friend and coach who uses a wheelchair; a teammate who's pansexual, has a name that reads as South Asian, and has a knack for making curry; and another teammate with brown skin, auburn curls, and two moms who's an art major. There are a few stereotypes and cliches, but overall the characters seem very individual, and it's refreshing to see such an accepting group of friends from the world of elite college athletes.
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Positive Role Models
a little
Neither Anastasia nor Nate are very likeable. Anastasia (Stas or Stassie) is a stereotype of a stubborn spitfire. Nate is a little against type as a caring jock, but he often goes too far out of jealousy or being too protective. As we get to know them they become easier to understand and sympathize with. They're surrounded by loyal, supportive friends, harsh coaches, and one villain.
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- Parents say (11)
- Kids say (24)
age 15+
Based on 11 parent reviews
Sharon McDouglas Adult
July 25, 2024
age 18+
I CANNOT BELIEVE!
O.M.G This book was horrible! my 9 year old daughter read this because her friend gave it to her! I started reading it myself and boy oh boy I will be contacting this friends mother! the amount of sexual intercourse is horrible and they didn’t even wait before marriage! CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS! AND SHE GOT PREGNANT AT ONLY 12?!? my daughter will be punished for reading!
isdj G. Adult
November 18, 2024
age 17+
wise
O.M.G This book was making me want to clap diddy's cheeks! my 69 year old daughter read this because her friend gave it to her! I started reading it myself and boy oh boy I will be contacting this friends mother! the amount of super secret sauce obstacles is horrible and they didn’t even wait at McDonald's! CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS! AND SHE GOT PENNIES FROM A THRIFT STORE AT ONLY 12?!? my daughter will be punished for reading!
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What's the Story?
ICEBREAKER is the story of University of California college students Anastasia (Stas) and Nate. Stas is on track to make the Olympic team in pairs figure skating, and Nate is the captain of the hockey team with a slot in the NHL waiting for him when he graduates. When a malicious act of vandalism damages the hockey team's ice, Stas and Nate are thrown together -- the hockey team has to share a rink with the figure skaters. Stas has no room in her life for distractions, but as she gets to know Nate she can't deny her feelings of attraction to him. As circumstances bring them together on and off the ice, their feelings for each other deepen, and they each begin to wonder, is this love?
Is It Any Good?
Our review:
Parents say (11):
Kids say (24):
This is a fairly predictable, lightweight college sports-themed romance that fans of the genre are likely to enjoy, but there's little else to offer other readers, except the sex, of course. ICEBREAKER isn't marketed to teens, but there's a lot of teen appeal in the many steamy, explicit sex scenes. Teens who are looking for a fun, breezy romance may actually find that all the sex starts to get in the way of the romance as it becomes more and more gratuitous. College life is pretty glamorized too. Aside from all the sex here, teens can look forward to independence, fun friends, lots of parties, and lots of drinking. And to everything turning out all right in the end.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the graphic sex in Icebreaker. Is it over the top? Realistic? Is reading about it different from seeing it in movies, videos, and other media?
What are some concerns about reading or watching explicit sex? Do you compare yourself or your body to the characters? Does it make you afraid, creepy, or unsure about what sex is like for real people?
What about all the strong language? Is it realistic? Is it a big deal? Why, or why not?
For part of this story, Anastasia struggles being comfortable with her body and eating normally. Is this a struggle for anyone you know? Why is this an issue for some people? What can be done?
Book Details
- Author : Hannah Grace
- Genre : Romance
- Topics : Sports and Martial Arts, Friendship
- Book type : Fiction
- Publisher : Atria
- Publication date : February 7, 2023
- Publisher's recommended age(s) : 18 - 18
- Number of pages : 448
- Available on : Paperback, Audiobook (unabridged), iBooks, Kindle
- Last updated : February 1, 2024
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